Wednesday, February 17

The time has come...

At Ruby's 4 month check up Tuesday, we got the official thumbs up to start cereal. This has been a moment I've been excitedly dreading for a long time. When I was pregnant, I started researching the timing of the 1st introduction of gluten to try to give Ruby the best shot at not developing Celiac disease. I came across several scholarly articles that focused on the unique window of time between 4-6 months, where the immune system is developing, but is not yet fully developed, when the introduction of gluten is not considered a threat to your body. All the articles also emphasized the importance of breastfeeding during this time, which is what helped me stick it out, even when it seemed like pure torture. Many baby food books have suggested delaying the introduction to as late as 9 months or even a year. The scholarly research I've read pretty much all agrees this is not ideal and have found that even delaying until 7 months poses an increased risk in the likelihood of developing celiac disease.
Which brings us to yesterday. Ruby literally had a few grains of rice cereal in breastmilk and loved it! She quickly figured out the relationship between the spoon moving toward her, opening her mouth, and moving the food backward to swallow. It was really cool to watch. My plan is to advance her through rice and oatmeal and into barley cereal around 5 months old. Most Celiacs consider oatmeal a contaiminated grain and will likely have a few stray gluten proteins. Barley is a glutenous grain. We will need to do some small servings of barley, probably mixed with rice or oatmeal to introduce gluten, but not overwhelm her system.

With that said, I should explain that even though I know she's at risk, she has to eat gluten in order to be properly diagnosed in her future. We hope with careful introduction she'll never develop it at all. She can be tested between 3-4 yrs old, once her body has created antibodies that can be detected with a blood test.

Now, dairy is another story...

Tuesday, February 16

Month Four

Dear Ruby,
Yesterday you turned 4 months old. You are getting to be such a big girl! Today we visited the doctor for your check up and learned you are now 13 lbs 15 oz and 25 inches long. These numbers make you a perfectly average baby, but to your father and I you are extraordinary.

In the last month your personality has exploded! The most beautiful music I’ve ever heard is your laughter. Your dad and I will do almost anything to make you laugh, which often results in us acting like crazy fools. You like to play peek-a-boo and do Itsy-Bitsy Yoga. You also love to practice standing in a wheeled walker. Usually you only go backwards, but occasionally you see something that can entice you forward.

You study the world with such care, which has led you to discover the kittens. At first you would just watch them, but in the last week you giggle when you see them and try so hard to talk to them. Why won’t they talk back?

Yet another new skill you’ve developed in the last month is the ability to intentionally grab things around you. Right now your favorite toy is a geometric ball you are borrowing from Xander and Eva Banschbach. You love this ball because it is light and easy to hold. You try to chew on it, but it doesn’t fit in your mouth, so you usually just end up sticking your tongue through the holes. You also love a giraffe your papa and I picked out for you. She is made of natural rubber, easy to hold onto, easy to chew, and she squeeks!

In the last month you’ve celebrated your Tia Katie’s Birthday, Valentines Day, and Super Bowl XLIV. It’s weird to say, but the Super Bowl will always be special for us. That is because it is the day that we found out you were going to exist. Your dad and I will never remember Super Bowl XLIII, because we sat in stunned silence thinking of you. From that day on, you have always been the most important thing on our minds.

Love Always,
Mama


Sunday, February 14

My Funny Valentine






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Saturday, February 13

T Queens

Ruby asked her cousin Kinsley to decorate a few t-shirts for her to wear. She sent us back the most adorable designs with exceptional detail and artistry. On the left, a drawing of a puppy who says "woof woof" with the back saying "princess princess princess love love princess princess princess." On the right, traced puzzle pieces that spell "we love Ruby" with the back traced cookie cutters surrounding the alphabet. She's holding a very geometric design of traced circles. Lastly, she's wearing my favorite--a christmas tree (I'm assuming representing spending christmas together) and a necklace, on the back it says "Kinsley loves Ruby."

Too Sweet
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Welcome Milo James!


Amy, Josh, and Toby Shafer welcomed a new little guy to their family February 2nd at 3:49pm--8lbs 9oz, 22 inches long. I asked... he didn't see his shadow. Amy reports every one is well and settling in a home. I am very much looking forward to meeting Milo very soon. Congratulations guys!
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Saturday, February 6

Laces Out, Marino!


The Superbowl is tomorrow.  So I made sugar cookies.  They are gluten free and dairy free.  It only took me 4 hours.